I Think I Have 9w1 as Second in my Tritype

[unico_love]

I've gotten some feedback on personalitycafe that leads me to believe I'm a 9w1 second in my tritype instead of 1w9. It's not that I don't like 1's (my significant other is a 1w2), but I tend to idealize 9's and admire the personalities of my 9 friends. I still think I'm a core 4w3 because I relate really well to everything I read about 4. I relate much better to the 4 sp/sx description than the 9 sp/sx description. I think in my posts about my 9/1 issue I downplayed my 4-ness and might seem like a core 9. I have issues with envy, have written probably 800 poems about my lost love, despite my cheerfulness, carry melancholy with me, etc. I do hate conflict, but I will deal with it more readily than most core 9's. I also tend to daydream about relationships with people in my life and can't escape reality through my daydreams. I get anxious about reality.