i could have sworn i got that icon from you! lol. well in any event, you are free to use it to, if it wasnt yours to begin with.
Anyway, so the latest is that the wife part of the couple isnt speaking to me. I called them and they are staying with some relative kind of near here. The husband sounds friendly but says the wife "might not be up to seeing" me. But he wasnt sure. I could hear her in the background and it pisses me off that she wont just speak to me or let me explain. I know her really well so I knew not to bother trying to get her on the phone. She wont even talk to me on the phone when shes NOT mad.
I wrote them a letter explaining my feelings and what occured. I apologized, but mostly explained my position.
I think it would be very petty and mean of her if she refuses to hang out with me. She will be punishing all of her, including her husband and daughter, if she won't let this go.
To be honest, if she holds a grudge over this or refuses to see me, I honestly don't think I will speak to her anymore. I have been a great and giving friend to them for MANY YEARS and i think I deserve some understanding.sorry for ranting so much but thanks for listening!
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Anyway, so the latest is that the wife part of the couple isnt speaking to me. I called them and they are staying with some relative kind of near here. The husband sounds friendly but says the wife "might not be up to seeing" me. But he wasnt sure. I could hear her in the background and it pisses me off that she wont just speak to me or let me explain. I know her really well so I knew not to bother trying to get her on the phone. She wont even talk to me on the phone when shes NOT mad.
I wrote them a letter explaining my feelings and what occured. I apologized, but mostly explained my position.
I think it would be very petty and mean of her if she refuses to hang out with me. She will be punishing all of her, including her husband and daughter, if she won't let this go.
To be honest, if she holds a grudge over this or refuses to see me, I honestly don't think I will speak to her anymore. I have been a great and giving friend to them for MANY YEARS and i think I deserve some understanding.sorry for ranting so much but thanks for listening!