First Aid

Jun. 28th, 2009 01:12 pm
unico_love: (Snow White)
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My father. It didn't work.
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I always accept apologies if they seem sincere and the person is making an effort to change. I don't think Amber's husband Timothy accepted my profuse (and many) apologies. I guess I might find out for sure someday...
unico_love: (childlike empress)
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I don't cook. I have difficulty learning it and following the directions. Even more than that, I can't cook for myself because touching food disgusts me. I could potentially learn to cook something for someone else, but I hate being around food and touching/smelling food. Going through the process of cooking/preparing food makes it too gross for me to later ingest.

Fate

May. 7th, 2009 11:43 am
unico_love: (ecstasy)
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I don't know. I believe in synchronicities (meaningful coincidences). And I believe some paths are more likely for each of us to follow, but I believe we each have free will and can change the path we are on. I believe there are things that are "right for us" that we can follow or choose to ignore and maybe spend more time struggling to understand ourselves and make the best of a situation. I think there are important things (even small things) that could happen and be very meaningful, but that we can turn away from them.
unico_love: (Asuka time)
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I always like to plan things. If I can't plan things or don't have control over a situation where I'm out of the house, I freak out. I feel out of control, have bad anxiety, don't eat, and don't have a good time. If I'm with someone I really trust who knows me well who is also dependable, I usually don't need to plan as much. I trust that if I get in an overloaded situation that they can help me. Even if things don't go as I planned, which usually bothers me but occasionally doesn't if it's a good/neutral surprise, I need to plan things out anyways. I wish I were more spontaneous and I hope I become more laidback with age, but so far I prefer having plans.
unico_love: (unico)
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Working more consistently on my creative work. I've always loved art and writing but I would do it intermittently. I did draw constantly as a young child but as I got older it wasn't every day. Now I'm trying to improve on my work independently and even when I'm feeling bad or can't make myself do much, I write poetry. I am careful to record my creative work even when I sometimes misplace the hard copy (like drawings...) I'm still nowhere near satisfied with my work but I feel I'm making progress by keeping up the hard work. I hope someday to be more accomplished and successful with some aspect of my creative work.
unico_love: (red rose girl)
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"If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain."
— Emily Dickinson

I love Emily Dickinson! Her poems are so creative.
unico_love: (Asuka and Rei in Snow)
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Chrono Trigger on Super Nintendo! My brother and I used to play that game over and over, trying to get all the endings. Marle was my favorite, but I also really liked Frog. I love the music and have a copy of the soundtrack. I love that game and Michael will probably buy it on Nintendo DS:-)
unico_love: (cat mask)
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Usually I find it easiest to confide in strangers, or at least people I haven't met in-person and don't anticipate meeting. I've always been very closed off with my family, sometimes for obvious reasons like the strict rules I still identify with my mother. My brother is a sociopath so I rarely share with him for obvious reasons. My friends whom I'm close to I usually eventually open up to, but it can take awhile because I worry about causing them problems or having them think less of me. If a friendship starts based on a lot of openness (like one email friendship in particular that I have), then it's easier to share. I think I'm learning to be more open with my friends, though, and I'm not holding back any major secrets (though I did for a few years).
unico_love: (Katy the Kitty Witch)
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One of my trips to Disney World! I'm not sure which one, and a lot of them blur together, but I adore Disney World. I hardly even get overloaded there. And I've been going since I was a baby so it's very familiar to me (though I generally hate when they change things, which they always do). I don't know when I'm next going to Disney World since we decided to go to Arizona this next time (I've never been to the southwest before). I do hope to return sometime not too far in the future, though!

First Love

Mar. 25th, 2009 11:47 am
unico_love: (strange beauty)
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Art was probably my first love, as I started drawing constantly at age 2. Some years I was more consistent with drawing/painting regularly than others as I got older, but it was a daily thing always in my childhood. I wasn't a great artist as a child, I don't think, but practice helped. I always feel at peace when I'm drawing/painting and I should do it more often.
unico_love: (ghostly)
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I would definitely tell, though maybe like someone else said, I would warn the cheater that I would tell if they didn't within a certain period of time. And even after my friend was told I'd still tell them my perspective as precisely as possible, especially if I witnessed some of the cheating. In fact, if the situation were switched and my friend were the cheater I'd probably still tell the other person if they refused. I just plain hate lying. And I would insist on telling what I know at some point because I've been lied to so severely, time and time again, by an individual, and I've had the same person tell lies about me and our relationship to make himself sound more innocent/me more crazy. Maybe I'm less trusting now... I do always give a warning before I tell, though, I'm starting to think that doesn't matter.
unico_love: (cat mask)
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This is very complicated for me because I usually give second chances, and more often than not I've been taken advantage of for it. On the other hand I have often needed second chances. I do, however, make a strong effort to change. I'd say a hesitant, yes, people deserve second chances, but depending on what occurred you might not be able to have the other person in your life anymore, at least for awhile. People need time to change usually.
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I don't have strict beliefs on what happens after death, having no memories of an afterlife following an incarnation, but I do have some beliefs that feel right to me. I believe all living beings (and possibly nonliving) have souls that are immortal. I believe eternity is the natural state of the universe, that all things really occur simultaneously and time is an illusion. I believe there is another plane of existence besides earth and that our souls also reside there. I also believe at least some souls reincarnate. I don't believe these reincarnations are a punishment of some sort, though I do believe there is at least some degree of choice involved.
unico_love: (strange beauty)
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I want it to be spring because spring is my favorite season:-) It fills me with hope, despite a lot of bad things for me typically happening in the spring. I like how it's starting to get warmer and greener and the sun is out more.
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I don't think I'm a "better" person, though I wish I could say that. I'm definitely more experienced in a wide variety of areas in life. I've learned social life is not like how it is in Sailor Moon. I've learned how to be more realistic in certain expectations as well as demands. I've done some volunteer work, too, which I hadn't done before. I hope that ten years from now I have more I can say about being a better person than I can currently say:-)
unico_love: (curious)
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I tend to be more verbal online because I have more time to think and I find written words much easier than spoken words. Sometimes I make dumb errors in my writing because I "see" what I intend to write instead of what I do write, but writing is still much easier. I feel I'm able to express more of who I am online, though I would be open in-person if the right topics came up. Any differences are not intentional.
unico_love: (Sarah ball)
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My favorite movie from age 8 until now has been Labyrinth. I love the songs and the magic and the puppets. I've been in love with Sarah's dress at the beginning of the movie ever since I saw it, as well as her hairpiece. I want a costume like that so much! It's also so fun that all the places, things, and creatures in the magical world of the Labyrinth exist in her own bedroom. I also like Brian Froud's creature design and have a couple Brian Froud books:-) My icon is Sarah during the dream-like ball scene:-) I also loved her hairpiece there. I think Jennifer Connelly was so pretty during this time period! I'm very jealous.
unico_love: (Asuka time)
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For me, personally, I would relive age four because even in elementary school I had extreme nostalgia for age four. Despite my father's alcoholism and my family's financial problems, I had a very happy early childhood overall.

For going back further in time, I would choose to see the ancient Minoan (pre-Greek) Civilization because I've been fascinated by it for many years and would like to see what the daily life was like. There's still a lot of mysteries behind this civilization.

True Love

Mar. 13th, 2009 01:11 pm
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I do believe in both true love and love at first sight. However, I don't always view this as the person you will marry or even date. I believe you can feel this way about more than one person at once and have different roles in the relationships. I believe in life-long loving relationships and love that carries on beyond death. I also have experienced love at first sight, even if it wasn't a "dating" relationship always. I still felt an instant connection I would call "love." And I don't believe loving someone always means the relationship ends up great, I just believe it's an underlying feeling and an internal dedication, even if you can't be around that person (or at least not for long).

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