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Social (23)
(4)1) Generally, I positively associate with the idea of being a part of something larger than myself. Though I may find it either overwhelming, because of my astute awareness of what lies beyond my own interests, or inspiring.
(3)2) I am very aware of the impact my decision will have on others and can be quite attuned to their reactions and needs. I read people well.
(3)3) Being recognized or valued by my peers or community, for my contributions, is important to me.
(3)4) I tend to have strong opinions on social change and/or social constructs and trends.
(1)5) I am aware of not only my own relationships, but also power structures and the nature of bonds between other people. I have a deep understanding of interconnectedness between groups and people who comprise them. In other words, I am good at perceiving the many facets of how a group works within its context and outside of it. I easily pick up on how I fit into the social hierarchy, whether or not I approve of it.
(1)6) I am socially aware, but I can also be reserved and socially distant.
(1)7) If I gravitate towards group (s)/institution (s)/gathering(s)of my choosing, I can be quite involved with championing the values and goals of this grouping.
(1)8) I tend to keep track of current events, even when not required to for my career performance.
(2)9) At my worst I am either strongly conformist or excessively anti-society/counter culture. At my best, my relationships with others are ones of healthy interdependence, and I may be inclined to strong individual leadership or display deep commitment in establishing teamwork and collaboration.
(4)10) "no man is an island." Everything is part of an interconnected web, like it or not.

Self Preservation (39)
(5)1) I am acutely aware of my physical safety (though sometimes I will choose to do something dangerous anyway)
(4)2) when I go to a party, I immediately notice the temperature, the smells and where the food is
(3)3) I am very health conscious
(5)4) financial/career, physical and/or romantic security are very important to me
(3)5) if I have an injury or a health related problem, I typically notice quickly
(3)6) I tend to save a decent amount of my money (explained below)
(5)7) predictability is important to me. the sooner I can know about things in advance, the better.
(5)8) when I'm under stress, things like health, finances, hygiene or other things that I normally stay on top of start to slip, sometimes severely.
(2)9) I'm acutely aware of cause and effect, particularly when the potential consequences are dire. if my friends listened to me more, they'd end up making a lot less stupid mistakes
(5)10) physical comfort is important to me. I can get distracted by things like uncomfortable seats, high humidity or bodily pain when I'm trying to enjoy time with my friends

Sexual (37)
(2)1) I have an addictive personality
(2)2) "if it's not worth doing in excess, it's not worth doing at all"
(2)3) people generally think I'm "too much". in lots of situations, I feel like it's expected of me to tone myself down considerably (which I will either refuse to do or do so begrudgingly)
(5)4) my energy is either "on" or "off". when I'm in the presence of someone who I vibe with my mind does an internal "YES! FINALLY!" and I try to start a conversation with that person
(5)5) I can be obsessive with my love interests. I am either clingy or have to try very hard not to be
(4)6) I feel like a part of me is missing and am looking for someone to complete me. at times, this creates a raw sort of longing that can lead to emotional volatility
(5)7) I have strong impulses (particularly with regards to relationships). I frequently wish I didn't have to be so damn careful
(4)8) if I'm not in a relationship, I feel old. I don't know how it's possible for people to be happy without passionate intimacy, because being without it makes me feel dead
(5)9) I only feel alive when indulging my passions. sometimes this causes me to neglect other areas of my life
(3)10) people either love me or hate me, but either way, my personality grabs attention, whether I want it to or not
unico_love: (Default)
Social (3)
1) Generally, I positively associate with the idea of being a part of something larger than myself. Though I may find it either overwhelming, because of my astute awareness of what lies beyond my own interests, or inspiring.
2) I am very aware of the impact my decision will have on others and can be quite attuned to their reactions and needs. I read people well.
3) Being recognized or valued by my peers or community, for my contributions, is important to me.

4) I tend to have strong opinions on social change and/or social constructs and trends.
5) I am aware of not only my own relationships, but also power structures and the nature of bonds between other people. I have a deep understanding of interconnectedness between groups and people who comprise them. In other words, I am good at perceiving the many facets of how a group works within its context and outside of it. I easily pick up on how I fit into the social hierarchy, whether or not I approve of it.
6) I am socially aware, but I can also be reserved and socially distant.
7) If I gravitate towards group (s)/institution (s)/gathering(s)of my choosing, I can be quite involved with championing the values and goals of this grouping.
8) I tend to keep track of current events, even when not required to for my career performance.
9) At my worst I am either strongly conformist or excessively anti-society/counter culture. At my best, my relationships with others are ones of healthy interdependence, and I may be inclined to strong individual leadership or display deep commitment in establishing teamwork and collaboration.
10) "no man is an island." Everything is part of an interconnected web, like it or not.

Self Preservation (9)
1) I am acutely aware of my physical safety (though sometimes I will choose to do something dangerous anyway)
2) when I go to a party, I immediately notice the temperature, the smells and where the food is
3) I am very health conscious
4) financial/career, physical and/or romantic security are very important to me
5) if I have an injury or a health related problem, I typically notice quickly
6) I tend to save a decent amount of my money (explained below)
7) predictability is important to me. the sooner I can know about things in advance, the better.
8) when I'm under stress, things like health, finances, hygiene or other things that I normally stay on top of start to slip, sometimes severely.

9) I'm acutely aware of cause and effect, particularly when the potential consequences are dire. if my friends listened to me more, they'd end up making a lot less stupid mistakes
10) physical comfort is important to me. I can get distracted by things like uncomfortable seats, high humidity or bodily pain when I'm trying to enjoy time with my friends

Sexual (8)
1) I have an addictive personality
2) "if it's not worth doing in excess, it's not worth doing at all"

3) people generally think I'm "too much". in lots of situations, I feel like it's expected of me to tone myself down considerably (which I will either refuse to do or do so begrudgingly)
4) my energy is either "on" or "off". when I'm in the presence of someone who I vibe with my mind does an internal "YES! FINALLY!" and I try to start a conversation with that person
5) I can be obsessive with my love interests. I am either clingy or have to try very hard not to be
6) I feel like a part of me is missing and am looking for someone to complete me. at times, this creates a raw sort of longing that can lead to emotional volatility
7) I have strong impulses (particularly with regards to relationships). I frequently wish I didn't have to be so damn careful
8) if I'm not in a relationship, I feel old. I don't know how it's possible for people to be happy without passionate intimacy, because being without it makes me feel dead
9) I only feel alive when indulging my passions. sometimes this causes me to neglect other areas of my life

10) people either love me or hate me, but either way, my personality grabs attention, whether I want it to or not
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The Big 45 Results )

Survey

Mar. 1st, 2012 10:42 am
unico_love: (Delight)
Survey from [profile] taibhse_fiach

1)Your favorite childhood cartoon?
My Little Ponies, Noozles, and David the Gnome. Gargoyles and Sailor Moon as I got a bit older

2)Favorite Sailor Moon character?
Sailor Moon/Tomoe Hotaru! She's a Capricorn like me and my hair is currently similar to hers:-) I can also identify with her personality in ways.

3)Fondest memory?
Being with Amber in Alaska, watching anime with Michael in my Wheaton apartment, being at Cornell my first semester, being at Disney World with my family.

4)If you could do anything with your life, money or anything else not being a concern, what would it be, and why?
Travel the world! There are so many interesting sites to see. I want to go so many places and see so many different cultures. I especially want to see Japan, Peru, New Zealand, England, Ireland, Germany, Switzerland, Sweden, Denmark, Egypt, Crete, Italy, France, Greece, Antartica, Mexico, Canada (Toronto and Vancouver and the most northern parts especially) and I'm sure many places I'm leaving out). I also would want to have a home near Disney World and near Amber in Alaska.

5)Do you play any musical instruments?
No:( I'm not musically talented.

6)What was your favorite class in school?
Art was the only constant. My other favorite changed throughout school. The only consistently hated one was gym:P

Survey

Nov. 7th, 2011 10:39 pm
unico_love: (Delight)
Survey )
unico_love: (Unico)
Day 01: 10 things about you.
Day 02: 10 things you love.
Day 03: 10 things you hate.
Day 04: 10 things you want to say to one person.
Day 05: 10 wishes.
Day 06: 10 items you can’t live without.
Day 07: 10 important people.
Day 08: 10 of your favorite songs.
Day 09: 10 ways to win your heart.
Day 10: final 10 words.

1. Love animals
2. Be very honest and sincere
3. Be nonjudgmental
4. Be forgiving
5. Know yourself well, both strengths and weaknesses
6. Love me or at least like me
7. Have proper grooming habits
8. Don't smoke and don't drink heavily
9. Write me letters
10. Have a work of art (any kind) inspired by me
unico_love: (crystal ball)
Day 01: 10 things about you.
Day 02: 10 things you love.
Day 03: 10 things you hate.
Day 04: 10 things you want to say to one person.
Day 05: 10 wishes.
Day 06: 10 items you can’t live without.
Day 07: 10 important people.
Day 08: 10 of your favorite songs.
Day 09: 10 ways to win your heart.
Day 10: final 10 words.

1. "Say That You Love Me" by Fleetwood Mac
2. "For the Longest Time" by Billy Joel
3. "Everywhere" by Fleetwood Mac
4. "Cruel" by Tori Amos (though I really just like most of her songs collectively)
5. "Don't Stand So Close to Me" by the Police
6. "2 out of 3 Ain't Bad" by Meatloaf
7. "At the Beginning" from the Anastasia soundtrack
8. "Something Happened on the Way to Heaven" by Phil Collins
9. "Landslide" by Fleetwood Mac
10. "Only the Good Die Young" by Billy Joel

Though what song I'm playing on repeat changes regularly:-)
unico_love: (crystal ball)
Day 01: 10 things about you.
Day 02: 10 things you love.
Day 03: 10 things you hate.
Day 04: 10 things you want to say to one person.
Day 05: 10 wishes.
Day 06: 10 items you can’t live without.
Day 07: 10 important people.
Day 08: 10 of your favorite songs.
Day 09: 10 ways to win your heart.
Day 10: final 10 words.

10 "important people" for me, personally? I will take it as that...

1. My mother
2. Michael
3. Amber
4. April
5. My mother's boyfriend
6. Phil
7. Maria
8. Kayleigh
9. My psychiatrist (who is a great person)
10. My brother (we are on better terms now)
unico_love: (Cat mask)
Day 01: 10 things about you.
Day 02: 10 things you love.
Day 03: 10 things you hate.
Day 04: 10 things you want to say to one person.
Day 05: 10 wishes.
Day 06: 10 items you can’t live without.
Day 07: 10 important people.
Day 08: 10 of your favorite songs.
Day 09: 10 ways to win your heart.
Day 10: final 10 words.

1. Flushable toilets
2. Running (sometimes hot) water
3. My computer
4. My medications
5. Food
6. Art supplies
7. Itunes (to play my music -- I rarely use my mp3 player)
8. My cell phone
9. My soap and lotions
10. Books
unico_love: (Amalthea)
Day 01: 10 things about you.
Day 02: 10 things you love.
Day 03: 10 things you hate.
Day 04: 10 things you want to say to one person.
Day 05: 10 wishes.
Day 06: 10 items you can’t live without.
Day 07: 10 important people.
Day 08: 10 of your favorite songs.
Day 09: 10 ways to win your heart.
Day 10: final 10 words.

1. Violence (killing, bullying, animal abuse, death in the circle of life, physical pain, etc.)
2. Lying/deceiving
3. Arrogance
4. Losing people
5. Uncertainty
6. Rejection and abandonment
7. People taking advantage of others
8. Anxiety
9. Vomiting
10. Insults and degredation
unico_love: (Unico)
Day 01: 10 things about you.
Day 02: 10 things you love.
Day 03: 10 things you hate.
Day 04: 10 things you want to say to one person.
Day 05: 10 wishes.
Day 06: 10 items you can’t live without.
Day 07: 10 important people.
Day 08: 10 of your favorite songs.
Day 09: 10 ways to win your heart.
Day 10: final 10 words.

1. My family and friends (obviously)
2. Disney World
3. Cherry blossom trees and magnolia trees
4. Most animals
5. Random acts of kindness
6. Drawing/painting
7. Reading books of all sorts
8. Going to a Unitarian Universalist church
9. Sailor Moon (it has a lot of meaning for me and has seen me through very difficult times)
10. Ecstatic experiences of feeling union with God and the universe
unico_love: (Unico)
Day 01: 10 things about you.
Day 02: 10 things you love.
Day 03: 10 things you hate.
Day 04: 10 things you want to say to one person.
Day 05: 10 wishes.
Day 06: 10 items you can’t live without.
Day 07: 10 important people.
Day 08: 10 of your favorite songs.
Day 09: 10 ways to win your heart.
Day 10: final 10 words.

1. I'm really short, but people usually guess that I'm taller than I am (between 5'0" and 5'1")
2. I have three cats and have never not had a cat, except when I was at college (but my mother still had cats at home)
3. I get terrible nostalgia almost constantly and have mostly positive memories about my past (even the times I was really depressed)
4. My favorite color is pale pink, followed by white/cream and periwinkle and lavender
5. My father's funeral was held on my 18th birthday (very appropriate, in a strange way)
6. I tend to be either very nice (and really like you) or be very mean (and be really angry at you) -- I'm not good at being indifferent
7. I used to want to be a nun and sometimes think I would want to be a nun if it weren't for Michael (though I don't really want to convert to Catholicism...:-/)
8. Disney World is my favorite place ever
9. I learned to read a little late, but I've been obsessed with reading ever since
10. The characters I most relate to are Amelie (from the movie), Jane Eyre, Katerina and Alyosha from The Brothers Karamazov, and The Lady/Elaine of Shalott
unico_love: (Unico)
Survey About What I Would Be )
unico_love: (crystal ball)
Day 1 - Pride. Seven great things about yourself.

1. Tendency to like people easily and to love permanently. I'm very loyal.

2. Being creative and artistic in various ways.

3. Love for animals and all living and nonliving beings.

4. Finding academics easy, at least as I got older. Being about to understand intellectual things.

5. Finding happiness in simple things.

6. Being open to other perspectives.

7. Being very honest.

Day 2 - Envy. Seven things you lack and covet.
Day 3 - Wrath. Seven things that piss you off.
Day 4 - Sloth. Seven things you neglect to do.
Day 5 - Greed. Seven worldly material desires.
Day 6 - Gluttony. Seven guilty pleasures.
Day 7 - Lust. Seven love secrets.

DNA Report

Nov. 21st, 2010 06:09 pm
unico_love: (Cat mask)

My personalDNA Report

Results )
unico_love: (Cat mask)

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Words of Affirmation.

Complete set of results

Quality Time: 10
Words of Affirmation: 8
Physical Touch: 5
Acts of Service: 4
Receiving Gifts: 3


Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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ABC Survey

Nov. 9th, 2010 09:56 pm
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ABC Survey )
unico_love: (Delight)
This is also from Facebook, but I want to post it here, too:-)

1. The Fountain
2. Enchanted
3. Ever After
4. Pulp Fiction
5. Harold and Kumar Go to White Castle (Yes, I know that's sad, but it really lifts my spirits and calms my anxiety)
6. The Last Unicorn
7. Lost in Translation
8. Disney's Beauty and the Beast
9. The Company of Wolves
10. The Sweet Hereafter
11. Tale of Two Sisters
12. Labyrinth
13. The Princess Bride
14. Best in Show
15. Persona
unico_love: (Cat mask)
Another list! This time, list fifteen authors (poets included) who've influenced you and that will always stick with you. List the first fifteen you can recall in no more than fifteen minutes. Tag at least fifteen friends, including me, because I'm interested in seeing what authors my friends choose. (To do this, go to your Notes tab on your profile page, paste rules in a new note, cast your fifteen picks, and tag people in the note.)

1. Madeleine L'Engle (I love her fantastical/sci-fi elements in many of her books and I love her style of Christianity and philosophy)
2. Fyodor Dostoyevsky (I identify with a lot of his characters and their inner turmoil and development)
3. Philip Pullman (His Dark Materials are some of my favorite books and even though his books are more atheist in tone, I related to a lot of the underlying feelings of the characters and what drives them)
4. Peter Beagle (The Last Unicorn -- Need I say more?)
5. Lloyd Alexander (I've been entranced by his Prydain Chronicles since I first read them in middle school and had some spiritual experiences inspired by them and developed a greater interest in Celtic/Welsh mythology)
6. Emily Dickinson (I identify with her lifestyle and her poems really affect me)
7 Soren Kierkegaard (I identify with a lot of his beliefs and philosophy and feel inspired by them)
8. C.S. Lewis (I also identify with a lot of his spiritual quest and beliefs)
9. Jane Mendelsohn (The book Innocence inspired how I want to write books and I identified a lot with the protagonist's tribulations -- albeit, at a later age)
10. Neil Gaiman (One of my favorite authors and author of my favorite book -- Stardust)
11. Angela Carter (I love dark fairy tale retellings)
12. Carl Jung (his psychology and philosophizing I really relate to and feel applies to me)
13. Joseph Campbell (I love studying archetypes and stories)
14. William Blake (I am inspired by his spiritual experiences, the beauty of his words, and his equally beautiful art)
15. Marie-Louis Von Franz (a Jungian psychologist who writes a lot about archetypes in fairy tales -- one of my favorite topics to read about since I was about 14-15 years old)

Edit: Okay, I forgot two of my favorite writers and have to include them:P

16. Haruki Murakami (I love his writing style and relate to the weird side characters)
17. Philip K. Dick (VALIS and its sequels really affected me and my thinking)

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